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Stop Clicking “Like” and Do Something

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Many years ago I heard a song, which contained this phrase:

“When did a check take the place of love, and what would Jesus think of that?”

Though I can’t recall the name of the song, I do know that that phrase has stuck with me for many years.

To me, it was a warning, and a reminder to do more than just throw money at a problem. Often we see something that needs to change, or people that need our compassion, so we pull out our wallets and write a check. This way we can feel good about doing “our part” without actually having to get our hands dirty.

As it turns out, we don’t even need a checkbook to do “our part” anymore. Just change your profile photo, repost your status, or click “like” and there.. you’re done. Or at least we are led to think so.

It’s called slactivism..and Wikipedia defines it this way:

“The word is usually considered a pejorative term that describes “feel-good” measures, in support of an issue or social cause, that have little or no practical effect other than to make the person doing it feel satisfaction. The acts tend to require minimal personal effort from the slacktivist.”

For me it’s my second least favorite Facebook update. You’ve seen these examples:

“Change your profile photo to a cartoon character”

or

“I’m 30 weeks and I’m craving pop tarts ”

or

“If this page get’s 1 million likes, my dad will stop smoking.”

So we click “like” or repost the status, or change our photo, and move on.

I know that these are all good things to support. Yes, we should definitely care about these issues. However, in my opinion these “tactics” are actually counter productive to what is hoping to be accomplished. Here’s why:

1. People Get Confused - My friend, who was married a few years ago, put in her status something like. “I’m 10 weeks and craving honey buns” To which the comments were things like. “Congratulations” and “How long have you known?” ,”I’m going to be an aunt?” I can just say that “Breast Cancer Awareness” was not the message people were getting.

2. We Discourage Real Involvement – We get a sense of satisfaction by participating in these types of updates. It scratches that itch we have to “help out” and can sometimes make us less likely to support something tangible when the opportunity arises. “Would you like to give money?” “No thanks, but I’ll like your page on Facebook.”

3. Nothing Real Happens- Profile pictures and status updates don’t feed people, or provide shelter to families, or really even raise money. I know, before you say “But wait…If we raise awareness, we’ll raise money!!” I want to point out that most of these campaigns do not say what they are raising awareness for, it’s cryptic, much less give a link or place to go for more information or a way to donate.

So what can you do?

1. Be Active - Give money, give of your time.

2. Be Unique - Update your status with something real, don’t copy everyone else. Tell me why you support your cause, make it personal.

3. Be Informative – Tell me the ways I can contribute. Give me  a link for more information or to donate, or a phone number to call to volunteer.

Unfortunately slacktivism this is nothing new. Facebook has just given us a new way to express it. This poem is written on the wall of a missionary training center.

I was hungry,
and you formed a humanities group to discuss my hunger.
I was imprisoned,
and you crept into your chapel and prayed for my early release.
I was naked,
and in your mind you debated the morality of my appearance.
I was sick,
and you knelt to thank God that you were in health.
I was homeless,
and you told me of the shelter found in the love of God.
I was lonely,
and you left me alone to go to pray for me.

You seem so holy, so close to God
but I am still very hungry-and lonely- and oh so very cold!

It reminds me that it is all too easy for us to think we are doing something, when we are really doing nothing at all.

I would love to hear your comments and thoughts. Leave them below.

Like I said this is my second least favorite type of Facebook update.. read about the first.

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5 Tips to Taming Facebook

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Since I was able to sign up on facebook I have always though it to be a wonderful thing. Over they years I have been able to connect with some old friends, meet some new people, share photos with family and enhance real life relationships.

And yes, while it is  a great tool to use, you can have too much of a good thing. Recent conversations have revealed a theme among those I have talked to in regards to their use of facebook.

“I can’t go ten minutes without checking facebook”

“I’m on facebook all the time. It’s on my phone, computer”

“If I get another request to join a mafia, or build a farm, or answer a question, I’ll scream”

“There are too many emails and notifications, I can’t keep up with it all”

For many, facebook has gone from being a blessing, to being a burden.

So what do you do? Well, first of all you can delete your profile, delete your photos and disappear off facebook forever.

But before you do that here are a few suggestions of some other ways you can use it and enjoy it again.

1. Hide Stuff- The next time someone asks you to return their lost cow, or join a mafia, block that application. Hover over the post on your wall, and an “X” will appear in the right hand corner. Click on that “X” and you will have three options: Hide that post, hide that person, and hide all from that application. After a few weeks you’ll begin to clear the clutter from your wall and see only the updates from those you want.

2. Make Lists - Go to your friends page and click “Edit Friends” You will have the option to create friends lists. Create a few lists to group your contacts into. Here are mine:

Family- If they are related this is where the go.

Friends- These are people I would still be in contact with if the internet died and I had to use other means to communicate. Like.. say talking face to face, or on the phone.

Aquaintances - If you are in this group, I know you, I’ve met you, but we really don’t talk or hang out much.

Associates – These are people who I work with on a yearly basis. Includes those in my work place, contacts I use on a regular basis for work related, or music ministry related purposes.

Church- Working at a church, and being in charge of communications I built a group for all my church facebook friends.

You may have more lists, you may have just a few. I know someone who made two lists… 1. People I like, 2. People I added just to be nice.

Then in your newsfeed click most recent, and then select the drop down. You can then choose the friend list you would like to see.

3. Turn Off Notifications- You do not need to get an email or text message every time someone rights on your wall, invites you to join a group or sends you a message. Go to “Account Settings” and then “Notifications” then uncheck a lot of boxes. I unchecked just about everything except when I am tagged in photos and some weekly updates for ads, birthdays etc.

This will allow you to go to facebook when you want to, not have it constantly draw you in.

(You will also need to turn off notifications on your mobile facebook program of choice if installed on your phone)

4. Take a Weekly Break - Consider a facebook free friday, or other day of your choosing. Commit to not use facebook for a complete 24 hour period every week.

5. Separate Personal and Business – When I started with facebook I had one personal page. I used that page as a way to connect with not only personal friends and family, but music ministry contacts from camps and concerts. Every camp I would go to I would accept 50 to 100 friend requests from those I had met. Now some of them, some of you, are great friends, but some only joined to keep up with my music ministry. So I created the Russell Martin music facebook page.

If I had it to do over again I would direct almost everyone to the music facebook page. This would keep my personal facebook much cleaner. If you have a business, or blog, or are part of an organization consider setting up a page for that. That way you can keep your personal site manageable, and those who want to keep up with your business don’t have to see 100 photos of your newborn child, or puppy dogs.

These are just a few of my suggestions. There are so many good things about facebook, but so many ways it can be controlling. Hopefully these tips may help you to keep in touch with those you want, without being overwhelmed.

Do you have a tip on how you have helped tame facebook? Share it in the comments below. Or share it with me on twitter.com/rgmmusic. You can also join my facebook page www.facebook.com/russellmartinmusic

 

 

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5 Statements That Should Change The Way We Do Communications

I recently decided to create a separate blog called Simple Church Communications. It comes out of my own learning about church communications, and the needs we have to look for new effective ways to tell our stories. Most recently I wrote about What the “Social Media Revolution” Means for the Methodist Church. Here is the first part of what was said:

The updated “Social Media Revolution” video by Erik Qualman is a fast paced, fact filled, and eye opening. Beginning with the question “Is Social Media a Fad?” it goes on to show, through a variety of statements about current social media use, how social media is here to stay.

Although the video was more intended for businesses, it got me to ask the following question.
What does the “Social Media Revolution” mean for the church? How does it, or should it impact how we do advertisement, outreach, publications, even worship services?
In the video he mentions 42 different statements. I want to look at 5 specific facts, or statements, and see how they can have a huge impact on how we do things.

The five statements that I picked were…

96% of adults under 30 are on a social network

Fastest growing facebook demographic is females 55-65

The second largest search engine is Youtube

78% of people trust friends recommendations, 14% trust advertising

We will no longer search for products and services, they will find us via social media

I believe these 5 statements, when applied to a church setting can have a profound impact on where we spend our time, energy and money in our communication efforts. To read the reasons why, and to check other articles visit simplechurchcommunication.com

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